CHASE COLTER (HE/THEY)

Licensed Professional Counselor

Specialties

  • Relational Trauma Repair

  • LGBTQIA+ Identity

  • Polyamory & ENM

  • Couples, Families, & Constellations

  • Body Liberation & HAES

  • Neurodivergence

Are you a queer, kinky, polyamorous, or gender-expansive person trying to find your way through the beautiful, messy world of relationships? 

Feeling stretched thin trying to balance multiple partners, schedules, and dynamics while keeping connection at the center? 

Are you confused or overwhelmed with jealousy or insecurity?

Do you want to unlearn old beliefs about love, gender, or worthiness, and build relationships that actually reflect what matters to you?

If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Hi, I’m Chase, an androsexual, genderqueer man, and these are the kinds of relationships and stories I love to work with. I believe that healing happens in connection, and I’m drawn to helping others grow relationships that feel alive, honest, and nourishing.

My work is informed by an expansive, rewilded vision of masculinity, one that’s fluid, relational, and honors both softness and strength. I am drawn to what I think of as the erotic ecology of connection: the ways we come alive again through relationship with ourselves, with each other, and with the living world.

  • "Healing happens in connection — when we slow down enough to listen to what our bodies and hearts are trying to say."

  • "Every nervous system holds its own intelligence. Therapy isn’t about fixing — it’s about befriending what’s already alive within you."

  • "Relationships can be laboratories for liberation — spaces where we learn new ways of loving, relating, and being free together."

  • "Wholeness isn’t something we earn; it’s something we remember."

Lineage and accountability

My roots are Scottish, Danish, and Irish, and I am on a continual journey to decolonize my mind and body, learning to live in right relationship with the land, my communities, and the histories that have shaped me.

I strive to stay aware of how whiteness shows up in my body and in my work, and to keep growing in ways that make my practice more connected, accountable, and supportive to my clients of color and folks belonging to communities of the global majority.

I don’t see this as something I’ve fully arrived at, but rather as an ongoing practice of listening, unlearning, and showing up more fully for our collective liberation.

What It’s Like to Work Together

When relationships start to feel distant, tense, or uncertain—even when love is still there—it can be painful to find your way back to safety and understanding. In therapy, we’ll make space for those moments, bringing care and curiosity to the places that have gone quiet or protective.

My approach is relational, embodied, and deeply collaborative. I draw from Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic & Attachment-Focused EMDR, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to support healing, regulation, and growth.

Together, we’ll explore the patterns and protections that shape how you love, connect, and communicate. Whether you’re navigating polyamory, co-parenting, chosen family, or a mixed-orientation partnership, we’ll work toward relationships that honor both autonomy and attachment, freedom and safety, truth and care.

I see every nervous system as its own kind of intelligence—something to understand and partner with, not to fix. From that foundation, we can cultivate connection that feels grounded, liberating, and alive.

Get Started with chase

If you’re ready to create relationships that feel more rooted, intentional, and fully alive, I’d be honored to walk beside you. You don’t have to have it all figured out to begin—just a willingness to show up with curiosity and care. Let’s start where you are, and see what can grow.

When you’re ready, click “Schedule a Consultation” in the header—or below if you’re on desktop—to take the next step.