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Tam Werner-Fitz Gibbon

Owner · Clinical Supervisor · Licensed Professional Counselor

Queer Agender Sex-Positive Kink-Affirming Poly-Informed Direct & Warm
"You do not have to shrink, perform, or explain yourself into something more palatable to deserve care."

Tam is a queer, agender Licensed Professional Counselor, Clinical Supervisor, and Sex Therapist offering LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy and consultation in Portland for people navigating identity, sexuality, relationships, trauma, shame, desire, boundaries, and the work of becoming more fully themselves.

Tam brings a direct, warm, collaborative, and deeply affirming style to therapy. Their work is grounded in the belief that people make sense in context: in their bodies, relationships, identities, histories, survival strategies, and communities. Sessions with Tam can be a place to name what has been hard to say out loud, untangle old stories, build self-trust, and move toward a life that feels more honest, connected, and yours.

Adults Young Adults LGBTQIA+ Queer Clients Trans & Non-Binary Clients Gender Diverse Clients Polyamorous & ENM Clients Kink Communities People Exploring Sexuality Clinicians & Supervisees
Gender & Sexuality LGBTQIA+ Identity Sex Therapy Kink & BDSM Polyamory & ENM Desire & Intimacy Sexual Shame Relationship Patterns Trauma Boundaries Self-Worth Identity Exploration
IFS

Internal Family Systems

Getting curious about the parts of you that protect, survive, adapt, and long for something different

NT

Narrative Therapy

Untangling inherited stories, shame, identity, power, and the meanings that shape your life

DBT

Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills

Practical tools for emotions, boundaries, communication, distress, and relationships

ST

Sex Therapy

Support for sexuality, desire, shame, intimacy, gender, pleasure, and sexual identity without judgment

AFT

Affirmative Therapy

Queer, trans, non-binary, kink, polyamory, ENM, and sex worker affirming care

SJ

Social Justice-Oriented Therapy

Understanding your story in the context of identity, power, oppression, community, and liberation